My ex husband is going for full custody of our 3 girls (18 months, 5 and 7) I’m the primary parent right now I provide them with housing food clothes take them to school pick them up from school etc.. all because he doesn’t know the background information or anything at all about my boyfriends criminal background (he’s on deferred probation gets off in June AND got SOLE CUSTODY of his kids AFTER his charge!!) my girls are already so attached to my boyfriend that I don’t wanna rip him away from them now. My boyfriend is by NO means dangerous, a threat to ANY of our lives or health we all feel absolutely completely comfortable being with him! He’d never ever hurt any of us and I know that he’s never been anything less than a loving caring sweet gentleman! I just wanna know if my ex husband COULD get custody especially when he doesn’t even have his own vehicle (he has to borrow one to pick them up) and then he also lives in a SINGLE room house where he sleeps in the same bed with all 3 of our girls! The girls have their own room here at my house I have my own car! Our girls already have extreme separation anxiety especially the baby she’s gotten significantly worse in the span of this whole process and she still needs to know her momma is gonna be there she screams and cries bloody murder when I leave for work and it absolutely breaks my heart because I tell her that I’ll always be back in a little while but she doesn’t understand that yet she just sees me leaving and it’s traumatizing to her!
