My husband found another woman earlier this year and left WI and our 34 year marriage. He wants to marry her and divorce me ASAP. He said we could do this on our own, but has hired a lawyer when the process wasn't going as fast as he wanted. His lawyer filed the divorce on July 31, but I have not found an attorney I could afford, and he is calling constantly to see if I have returned the letter stating that I have received all the paperwork from his lawyer. I have not mailed the letter back yet, because I was not sure I should do that without legal advice. I have also recently been diagnosed with a neurological condition and still have tests to do RE: that condition, and am very fatigued, and I think that is also slowing me down. But he keeps calling me, so far 9 times today to see if I sent the paperwork in. Not sure what to do.