My brother and wife manipulated my mother when in a rehab facility on pain meds after hip surgery to remove me as co-executive and POA of Healthcare. Now my mother is in another rehab and they're trying to cash in her annuities and place her in nursing home to avoid taking care of her. I recently found out that my mother did change her trust back to me and brother as co trustees. Recently sold her large home and downsized to condo. In review of her documents, she is needing to get the new condo in Trust, was considering having bank be trustee to avoid complications in my mother's best interest.
Also, mother has boyfriend of 25 yrs. He's trying to get his portion of estate & having him reside in condo for remaining of his life while the estate pays all the operating and taxes until his death and collects 20% of distribution.
What are the terms to have my mother incompetent? Need an attorney to redo his trust to include purchase of condo. What is the best way to handle the co trustee issue?