I'm from Indonesia. Married 15 years ago with American. 4 (2015)years ago my husband got kicked out from his home at New Jersey (Foreclosure). I bought the house at Georgia 6 years ago(2013) used my parent gift after they deceased, my husband agree to sign agreement at notary public that he will not have my home. My son has ADHD and I sent him to Military Boarding School for 3 years. I got a lot of help from them , I paid $400/month and my stepson doing very well at school combine with medication from Psychiatris I have job as Home Health Aide and I paid for his school and my husband paid for anything else. His net income around $2800/month. This summer my stepson involve with marijuana and smoking vape. He refuse to continue take the medication, run away 3 times, involve with felony theft (the police didn't arrest him) and he want to move to public school. His dad protect him because of the run away. I have 13 years boy (our child together) that always see all the chaos at home and how my husband didn't handle the situation well. He refuses to sent my stepson to the rehabilitation for trouble ADHD. He didn't believe to the medication that doctor gave (except ADHD med for concentration). All the situation make me feel not safe and panic attack. I'm from Indonesia and I feel for 15 years our married he just using me ( he is white). My job is not stable. One day I have job , the next day I'm not. All the money I earned , I put for family. Recently I just lost my job. And my husband said, you can't afford to pay the lawyer, don't you?
How I win this situation?